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Here are the top 10 non-negotiable rules combining the essential and unique aspects from both lists:
1. Respectful Communication: Speak to each other with respect. No yelling, cursing, or disrespectful language. Example: No name-calling or yelling during disagreements. Respect Rule: Speak respectfully
2. Honesty: Always tell the truth. Honesty is crucial for maintaining trust. Example: Being honest about where you're going and who you're with. Truth Treaty: Always tell the truth
3. Curfew Compliance: Adhere to agreed-upon curfews. Be home at the specified times unless prior arrangements are made. Being home by 8 p.m. on weekdays and 9 p.m. on weekends. Time Trust: Follow curfew times
4. No Substance Use: Absolutely no use of alcohol, drugs, or tobacco. Example: Not drinking alcohol at parties or experimenting with drugs. No-Nonsense Policy: No substance use
5. Homework and Study Time: Complete all homework and dedicate a set time daily for studying without distractions. Example: Spending 2 hrs each evening on homework assignments and self study. Study Standard: Complete homework and study daily
6. Digital Footprint Awareness: Be mindful of what is posted online. No sharing of personal information or inappropriate content on social media. Example: Avoiding sharing personal information like address or phone number on social media. Online Awareness: Be mindful online
7. Participation in Family Activities: Be present and participate in family activities and events, fostering family bonding. Example: Participating in Sunday family dinners without any prior engagements. Family First: Prioritize family activities
8. Privacy and Boundaries: Respect each other’s privacy and personal boundaries, including knocking before entering rooms. Example: Knocking before entering siblings' rooms and asking before borrowing items. Privacy Pact: Respect personal space
9. Emergency Preparedness: Always keep your phone charged and have a list of emergency contacts. Inform parents of your whereabouts and any change in plans. Example: Keeping the phone charged and knowing whom to contact in case of emergency. Emergency Essential: Stay prepared for emergencies
10. Healthy Lifestyle Choices: Maintain a balanced diet, exercise regularly, and get adequate sleep. No skipping meals or engaging in unhealthy diets. Example: Eating balanced meals and getting at least 30 minutes of exercise daily. Healthy Habits: Maintain a healthy lifestyle
These rules collectively address communication, trust, safety, personal responsibility, and well-being, forming a comprehensive framework for teenage behaviour and development.
TAKE A PRINT OUT AND STICK IT IN THE TEENS ROOM SO THAT THE TEEN SEES IT EVERYDAY AND KNOWS THE RULES WELL :)
NON - NEGOTIABLE RULES FOR TEENS
1. Golden Silence Code: Speak with respect, avoiding yelling or cursing.
2. Truthful Beacon Pact: Always tell the truth to maintain trust.
3. Twilight Retreat Directive: Adhere to agreed curfew times.
4. Sobriety Sentinel Mandate: Absolutely no alcohol, drugs, or tobacco.
5. Scholar's Sanctuary Decree: Dedicate time for homework and study without distractions.
6. Digital Etiquette Covenant: Be mindful of online presence and content shared.
7. Family Unity Accord: Participate in family activities and events.
8. Sanctuary Boundary Edict: Respect personal privacy and boundaries.
9. Guardian Alert Protocol: Stay prepared for emergencies and keep parents informed.
10. Vitality Vigilance Doctrine: Maintain a healthy lifestyle with balanced diet and exercise.
Cheers to Joyful Parenting
Swati